Achieving orgasm is a deeply personal experience—every woman’s body responds differently, and what works wonders for one person might not be the best for another. That’s why it’s important to explore and experiment with positions that feel right for you. Don’t worry, though—I’m here to guide you!
Here are five positions that many women swear by to boost pleasure and take their orgasmic experience to new heights.
1. The missionary position (with a twist)
Let’s start with the classic missionary position, which is often underestimated. It’s not just about lying flat—the twist is all about elevating your hips to adjust the angle and deepen penetration. Placing a pillow under your lower back or hips can help tilt the pelvis in just the right way to stimulate the G-spot more effectively.
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This position also allows for eye contact and emotional intimacy, which can elevate the experience and make the connection with your partner even more fulfilling. Plus, the gentle rhythm often associated with missionary allows for a gradual buildup of tension, making your climax even more powerful.
2. Woman on top (cowgirl)
One of the best positions for women is definitely on top, or the cowgirl position. It gives you complete control over speed, depth, and angle—all key factors when it comes to achieving orgasm. You’re in charge of how fast or slow things go, which is crucial for finding the rhythm that works best for you.
This position also offers the added benefit of clitoral stimulation, a key factor in orgasm for many women. As you move on top, you have the freedom to experiment with the pace and positioning, ensuring you hit the right spots for maximum pleasure.
Tip: For added sensation, try incorporating a vibrator. The smooth vibrations complement your natural rhythm and intensify clitoral stimulation, taking your orgasm to the next level.
3. Doggy style
Doggy style is often seen as a position suited for penetration depth, but when done right, it’s also fantastic for G-spot stimulation. The angle allows for deep penetration, and with a little guidance in rhythm, you can achieve just the right amount of friction to create intense, orgasmic sensations.
A slight variation where your partner leans forward or you lower your torso can also increase clitoral stimulation. This position is great for those who like to be more hands-on—both you and your partner can use your hands to stimulate each other in ways that lead to more focused pleasure.
4. Spooning
For a more intimate and sensual experience, try spooning. This position allows for full-body contact, which helps foster emotional connection and creates a slower, more sensual buildup. While it might not offer the same depth of penetration as other positions, it provides the perfect angle for clitoral stimulation.
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Your partner can use their hands to help with additional stimulation or gently adjust the angle to maximise the pleasure you’re experiencing. This position is all about being close and connecting on a deeper level, with gentle movements that build the intensity of the orgasmic buildup.
5. The butterfly position
The butterfly position is a unique one that can be exceptionally effective for some women. It requires a bit of flexibility, but the payoff is worth it. In this position, you lie on your back with your legs raised in the air, and your partner kneels or stands between your legs.
The beauty of the butterfly position lies in the angle of penetration, which gives your partner access to both the G-spot and clitoris. As your hips are slightly lifted, it intensifies the pressure on your sensitive areas, making orgasm more accessible. Plus, it’s great for deep, rhythmic thrusting while leaving room for added manual or oral stimulation.
These five positions aren’t just about achieving orgasm—they’re about understanding your body and taking control of your pleasure. While everyone’s preferences vary, the key to a satisfying sexual experience is being open to trying new things, communicating with your partner, and allowing yourself to fully relax and enjoy the sensations.
Orgasm is not just a physical release—it’s an emotional experience, too. So, experiment with these positions, find what feels right for you, and take your time discovering the moves that work best for your body. The goal is simple: pleasure without limits.
Rachel Baker is the LBDO founder and CEO. Baker offers empowering tips and recommendations on embracing sexual wellness, intimacy, and pleasure.
